I Envy You

April 5, 2008 · Posted in Personal 

Plenty of readers, solid comments, people visiting your blog always. That’s what a very good blog has. I really envy them. You know, the feeling or the fact that I am not very good at english language and grammar, I just envy those who are very good at it, Filipinos who are good in english.

As you noticed, I haven’t got any posts lately which has a single comment. Nothing. Just blank. Do you know how frustrating that is? It feels like blogging is forcing me to stop. I know I’m not good at it, I’m not good at writing anything. I’m not good at grammar, in fact, I hate writing. But why am I doing this?

My mind is stressed by the way, I just feel I can’t give my readers any good content, I don’t even know if I do have readers, I mean solid readers that do comment. It’s really frustrating. Did you ever come to a time like this? I mean, I don’t know.. I think I just need to unwind a little :(

It's really nice having a coffee while reading, I'll appreciate it if you treat me one.

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8 Responses to “I Envy You”

  1. nelle on April 6th, 2008 9:18 AM

    hello,

    sure there will be times like this. i guess you’re just stressed out and need some break. I’m sure you’ll get regular visitors, just keep blogging. you’ll meet them halfway on the blogosphere.

    goodluck

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    LivingSouL reply on April 13th, 2008:

    thanks for the uplifting msg, I really appreciate it.

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    laylay reply on March 2nd, 2010:

    you are the stupidest bitch i ever met and i think you can SUCK A DICK AND DIE YOU DUMB HEFER! plus just so you know you wouldnt be able to steal my man if you walk over to him naled so FUCK YOU!

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  2. bendzg on April 6th, 2008 3:26 PM

    I had that issue on my blog myself. Mine is way more worse than yours though. I don’t have any connections with other bloggers and my SEO efforts are not gaining me visitors.

    I guess, if you should blame something on your site for this phenomenon, it should not be your grammar. It’s your SHOUTBOX!

    Why bother posting comments when they could just chat hehehe.

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    LivingSouL reply on April 13th, 2008:

    Thanks for the tips bendz.. I’ll take it to consideration :)

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    Zang reply on April 17th, 2008:

    i agree with bendz… pull out your shoutbox… it’ll just make your readers comment there instead on the post

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  3. Tessa on April 6th, 2008 3:29 PM

    well I am no expert, neither an old blogger… but I guess everyone gets to experience times like this. I too have a lot to learn. I have a very slow and small traffic going on my blog and I also commit grammatical errors, but I still try to post. sometimes, I feel like giving up because I don’t grab any attention… I end up posting nothing for the day…

    one thing that I’ve learned for the past 3 months is that you cannot survive the blogosphere if you don’t create a relationship with other bloggers. I believe on what someone said on his blog, that you shouldn’t think that there is a competition going on between you and other bloggers. bloggers are also readers and commentators, plus they even contribute information to us… well I think you already know that I give importance to those who are on my blog roll, specially those who I find as a very good read… if you read blogs and leave comments, they would do the same.

    I guess you just have to try again… there’s no use on giving up now. you already bought a domain, gave all your energy on earning a good traffic, gave your services and received good compliments… don’t put that to waste… plus it’s a big advantage when you will start to grab more opportunities in the future. you just have to make use of all the resources you have.

    anyway, we can talk about this in person right? :-*

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    LivingSouL reply on April 15th, 2008:

    You’re right, there shouldn’t be a competition going on bloggers, bloggers should share right?

    Thanks for this b. :) of course we can talk about this in person… :)

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