Happy CoupleDid you ever knew your partner’s Love Language? This is very important if you want your relationship to be better. I’ve learned about this last sunday when our pastor’s wife preached about it. And I was interested on the topic. It was fun, the congregation laughed when Ate Grace taught about your partner’s Love Language. And now, I’m gonna share to you my opinion and thoughts about The Five Languages of Love.

Words That Affirm
“You look great on that shirt“, “You’re the best cook, I love it when you cook my favorite Adobo“. Words that affirm, this is very powerful when your partner’s Love Language is Words That Affirm. Sometimes encouragements can make your partner feel loved too. Offering encouragements can make him or her overcome insecurities and develop confidence. Saying a simple “I Love You” is good way to show your love to your partner, but it’s better if you add it with action. Like the this next one:

Quality Time
Common problem among married couples is quality time. If your partner’s Love Language is Quality Time, and you are very busy of something else, work, business, CARS, or anything that would make your partner feel you don’t want to be with him or her, could be dangerous. This is common on Love Languages too, almost all of us do prioritize Quality Time. Go out to dinner just the two of you, go to parks, watch a movie on the theater or just by talking to him or her alone is a quality time. Me and my girlfriend is spending time together on a park on a regular basis now. Just talk and laugh together, looking at the sky, breathing the cool air, spending quality time. It’s great.

Physical Touch
No matter what you give or say, but you don’t physically touch him or her, It won’t change his or her mood for the day. Have you ever noticed among lovers? If they haven’t got married yet, the guy is always holding the girl when they walk, but when they get married, the guy now leaves the girl behind saying “Hurry up!” hehe. Even when sleeping, hug him or her. I like my girlfriend holding my arms when we walk together, I just feel she’s confident enough to show the world that I’m her boyfriend. It’s like giving your partner confidence also.

Receiving and Tokens of Caring
Many of us feels to be loved when they are receiving gifts and tokens of caring. Just a simple flower made out of paper would be great, the effort of making it for your parter is what matters most. A breakfast in bed is also one thing that makes most of us feel loved and cared. I gave my girlfriend a small bunny on our first year anniversary. I can only afford a small stuffed toy for her, but with a hug and kiss and especially “I Love You” will make it priceless.

Getting Things Done
 I like to get things done for my girlfriend, I even insist to do things that I know she can do herself. Why? Because that’s how I show my love to her, I like to treat her as my queen. And that’s how you treat a queen right? Not that I’m making her a spoiled girlfriend, but that’s how it should be. Men should treat women as queens/princesses. Actually there are 3 Responsibilities of a Man in a Relationship, if you want to find out what, click this. Other men also feels to be loved when their partner gets things done for them. You get things done because don’t want your partner to be tired or something. Taking Care of him or her is a good thing too.


Well, basically those are the 5 Languages of Love. Focus on finding your partner’s language of love. Make them happier. Show your love to them. Take care and give some gifts even if it’s not expensive. I know it sounds corny for men or something. But if you do that to your girlfriend or wife, surely they’ll respond to it and give you what you want, Love and Respect.

Marc

is a shy person, Musician for God, Gamer, Blogger, Chatter and Chubby, he is down to earth though. He doesn't like to go to places where it is too elegant and crowded for him. But in general, he's easy to get along with.

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