My Own Universe

What does a dream mean? If it’s about your past, love life, does it mean something? I don’t know, maybe I’m just confused or something.

Well, as few of you knows (’cause my older posts about my past was deleted), let me give you some brief fact about it. Me and my 5-year girlfriend broke up last October 10, 2008. I know it’s almost a year since we broke up, but the last time we were together was just last February 2009. She had a new boyfriend, after a month or two, I had my new girlfriend too, she’s in Kuwait right now, working. To be honest, I don’t know if I can survive this LDR thing. Anyway, let’s go on to topic.

There’s this one time last week, I can’t remember what day it was. I was so deeply asleep, I know I was that deeply asleep ’cause I dreamed, I rarely dream, I don’t know why, but that’s me. I was kinda surprised why I dreamed about my ex-girlfriend, I wasn’t even thinking about her when I slept.

The dream goes like this. Me and my ex-gf together with her mom, met in a place full of flowers around us, red and yellow ones, somewhere like a garden. And then we talked and talked, had a real and good closure, ’cause we never had a real closure, like you know, talked in person or what not. You know, something that would make things which was left hanging, be cleared. After we talked and cried, Read more…

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I found this list on Friendster Bulletin and found it interesting. In short, I agree with this. I don’t really know who the author is, but I’m reposting it. Read it carefully, you might realize reading all this.

You can also read my earlier post about 3 Responsibilities of a Man in a Relationship to furthermore understand men.

1. Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about….
2. Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile
4. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
5. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?..uh…nevermind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
6. If a guy tells you about his problems, Read more…

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Hmmm, this is kinda interesting. Well, to start off, almost all of the relationships I had was through the powerful media, the Internet. It was not just a relationship that’s on the Internet only, it became real and it’s not a bad thing.

I’ve had five “Cyber Relationships”. Yeah, five. Only two out of those five are like, puppy love or not very serious ones. But I’m not regretting those. It made me grow up and be more mature on what you call “love”. Heh

Me and my girlfriend met on the Internet. Our “Cyber Relationship” became deeper and deeper as time goes by. Of course we started out as friends, for a year. And love just came out of our hearts and bonded us and made us decide to meet personally, and we became lovers. After 4 years and 6 months, we’re still together. Deeper and stronger, and I’m very happy with what we have. The bond we have, trust, and most of all, the love that we have.

All relationships work if both parties are willing to give and take. For the men, you should know your responsibilities as a man in your relation ship, and both should know about your partner’s Love Language. With those, I’m sure your love life will be better. But don’t forget to seek the Lord’s Kingdom first before anything else, and all of it will follow.

How about you? Have you had any “Cyber Relationships”? How did you meet? Share!

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Did you ever knew your partner’s Love Language? This is very important if you want your relationship to be better. I’ve learned about this last sunday when our pastor’s wife preached about it. And I was interested on the topic. It was fun, the congregation laughed when Ate Grace taught about your partner’s Love Language. And now, I’m gonna share to you my opinion and thoughts about The Five Languages of Love.

Words That Affirm
“You look great on that shirt“, “You’re the best cook, I love it when you cook my favorite Adobo“. Words that affirm, this is very powerful when your partner’s Love Language is Words That Affirm. Sometimes encouragements can make your partner feel loved too. Offering encouragements can make him or her overcome insecurities and develop confidence. Saying a simple “I Love You” is good way to show your love to your partner, but it’s better if you add it with action. Like the this next one:

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A man has roles to play in a relationship, whether in marriage or in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. He is responsible for these 3 roles that a man should understand in order to handle his relationship with others easily (If the woman agrees.. heh).

First Responsibility: A man is a King. King means male sovereign, ruler of a kingdom and authority. His kingdom is the relationship he has with his wife/girlfriend and family. He should rule his kingdom, and not his wife or girlfriend. But don’t jump into a conclusion that being the king of a relationship is easy. Like Peter Parker’s Uncle said “with great power comes with great responsibility. -Ben Parker”. As the king of a relationship, he should be man enough to protect his relationship from anything that could break it, like how an armor protects a soldier.

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